We are still on post-Eid holidays. We've had guests, and from today its back to house painting, starting with downstairs ceilings.
Aside from that, on our last library visit I noticed a new book on the shelf. I look through the children's fiction to help the boys to pick out titles. If the three of us look we can usually find enough to keep them going for a week or so.
I found a book called "Ida B", by Katherine Hannigan, and the blurb begins "Ida B Applewood believes there is never enough time for fun. That's why she's so happy to be homeschooled and to spend every free second outside with the trees and the brook."
I brought it home to see if it could be of interest. Ida B loves to play outside, with the trees and brook as her friends. Her first days at school are difficult, she is miserable so her parents decide to withdraw her and homeschool her instead. After a few years her mother gets cancer and Ida B is sent back to school. She resents this deeply, and resolves to make no friends and to withdraw from her parents. The rest of the story shows how she gets used to the situation until she is fine with school and restores her relationship with her parents. (The mother survives).
The writing style is fun and expressive, and that makes it pleasant to read. But what is this all about?
Of course this book is for children, but as a mother it is quite horrifying. Its like a worst nightmare, you home ed your children, but get cancer and become too sick to continue. Your child hates you for sending her back to school and cuts herself off from you. Your fun loving, full-of -questions child no longer speaks or looks you in the eye. May Allah keep us mums in good health for the sake of our children.
And then what does it say about homeschooling? The parents withdrew Ida because she was unhappy, but then look, when they are unable to cope the trauma the family would already face from the cancer is compounded by the trauma of returning to school. Does the author imply that it would have been better for Ida B to have stuck it out from kindergaten and just got used to it?
Are the parents to blame for withdrawing her too hastily? The author stands over us saying "What are you doing with your child, what if it goes wrong?". And Ms Hannigan has a degree in education of course.
And about never having enough time for fun? We don't really know where that goes. And what would the child reader think I wonder?